September 25, 2023   6:56pm

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I’ve wondered for a long time why the media rarely, if ever, talks about the memory loss that frequently accompanies menopause. (Actually, gynecologists rarely seem to warn us either)

“I think I might be getting Alzheimer’s.”

I can’t tell you how many women have said that to me. And not one knew to put memory on her list of menopause concerns — that list that included heart attack, cancer, bone loss, dry skin, thinning hair, stroke, ad infinitum. (Memory loss wasn’t even mentioned in a menopause cover story in Newsweek last year.) So, I’d just about decided that there was a conspiracy of silence. Maybe women wanted to keep this under the radar in case someone wanted to use faulty memory against them?

That’s why I yelped “FINALLY” when I saw a Wall Street Journal article this week by Melinda Beck: “Doctors Use Estrogen to Treat Memory Loss in Older Women.” Here’s an overview of what Beck has to say, but I suggest you go to the article link we’ve provided and read the whole thing yourself …

“Doctors who specialize in menopause say such cognitive problems [memory loss] are just as common as hot flashes and often more worrisome.” …”Many studies have confirmed that declining estrogen affects visual and verbal memory, language and other cognitive skills.”

However, studies have found contradictory results — depending upon age and type of hormone replacement therapy (HRT) — and like so many studies related to menopause, there are still many unanswered questions. “Indeed, not all women suffer memory loss or fuzzy thinking at menopause, just like post-partum depression and pre-menstrual syndrome don’t affect all women.”

“For women who are sensitive, HRT can be a lifeline.” A tax attorney mentioned that she: “… couldn’t think. I couldn’t remember names of clients. I couldn’t focus on documents. I resigned from every board and started to make arrangements to retire on disability.” When she went back to an estradiol patch, she said: “I’m practicing full throttle again. I got my life back.”

While HRT may or may not be right for you, we do need to be aware of the possibility of “menopause memory,” and, it shouldn’t be such a well-kept secret. We all need to keep talking about it.

TIP: If you’re interested in treating menopause with or without HRT, visit, written by Wendy Lawson in San Francisco. She was frustrated about the difficulty she found in getting the information she wanted so made it easy for you to get a lot of what you may be after.

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